Engage. Educate. Empower! Check Out W.O.M.A.N., Inc.’s Next Community Education Series

Interested in learning more about domestic violence- Want to become empowered to stand up against abuse in your communities- Interested in learning how you can support your loved ones in

 

Learn more about our Education & Outreach program as well as other ways to get involved at our website: www.womaninc.org/education.

Want to support our programs? People like you are a HUGE reason we can provide our workshops regularly & free of charge. Please consider donating at www.womaninc.org/donate.

Community Education Series: Healthy Relationships Workshop

CES Workshops.pngCreating and maintaining healthy relationships is critical to our quality of life.

While all of us may value the people we have connections with, many of us do not take the time to consider what building and maintaining healthy relationships means to us. This topic is important because it helps us to 1) explore what is healthy and what is not, 2) identify clear, meaningful ideas of what our personal needs are in a partnership and 3) understand that we are deserving of relationships in which those needs are met.

When we connect this conversation to supporting domestic violence survivors, talking about healthy relationships can be an empowering thing. It is important for survivors to not only be able to identify abuse, but also to have an idea of what a healthy relationship might consist of  — establishing what they DO want instead of just focusing on what they don’t. It is not enough to advocate for a relationship without violence and leave it at that. Identifying our emotional needs, exploring healthy dating practices and knowing that we are deserving of relationships that are mutually loving and fulfilling strengthens our current relationships and lays the foundation for relationships we build in the future.

Please be apart of this discussion by joining us for a free workshop apart of our Community Education Series! This session will focus on what a healthy relationship looks like and how we can support one another in our relationships. Participants learn to recognize and define qualities of a healthy relationship, what it means to have boundaries, and develop a personal definition of trust.

When: Wednesday, June 14 | 6:15PM
Where: SF Public Library, Ortega (3223 Ortega Street)

Questions? Please call Alicia at (415)969-6802

Learn more about our Education & Outreach program as well as other ways to get involved at our website: www.womaninc.org/education.

Want to support our programs? People like you are a HUGE reason we can provide our workshops regularly & free of charge. Please consider donating at www.womaninc.org/donate.

Community Education Series: Supporting Friends & Family of Survivors

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Domestic violence impacts all of us.

Many survivors reach out to friends and family for support before they call a domestic violence hotline, or call the police.  We all want to support someone we care about; we want to see them happy and safe. So, when someone we love is being harmed, it’s natural to feel at a loss on how to help.

As community members, we have the potential to impact change. If we can come together and offer support based on what survivors ask for, we can send a message that they are deserving of our help, that the abuse isn’t their fault, and that they shouldn’t have to suffer at the hands of someone who claims to love them. If we can ban together and support survivors, while questioning abusive behavior, we will send the overriding message that abuse doesn’t belong in our community–our circle of friends, our families, our workplaces or our homes.

Please join the W.O.M.A.N., Inc. Outreach Team at a free workshop apart of our Community Education Series. This session will focus on what we as family, friends and community members can do to support survivors of domestic violence, as well as what resources are available for all involved.
When: Wednesday, May 17 at 6:00PM
Where: SF Public Library, Bayview (5075 3rd Street)

RSVP on Facebook/Invite your friends here.
Questions? Please call Alicia at (415)969-6802

Learn more about our Education & Outreach program as well as other ways to get involved at our website: www.womaninc.org/education.

Want to support our programs? People like you are a HUGE reason we can provide our workshops regularly & free of charge. Please consider donating at www.womaninc.org/donate.

 

Allyship & ICE Presence in the SF Bay Area

With fears about the country’s mass deportation efforts, many of us have been wondering about ways we can show up & hold strong in support of immigrant communities. In addition to calls to representatives, rallies and community forums, organizations around the Bay Area are hosting workshops and talks to address ways we can apply knowledge to practice. Over the past couple months, W.O.M.A.N., Inc. volunteers, staff & participants have been attending “Know Your Rights” & allyship workshops in preparation for possible ICE presence in San Francisco.

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Recently, a few of us attended a training hosted by Mission Graduates & PODER on how we can support our community in the event of an ICE raid. We learned about what resources are available, immigrant rights, covert tactics used by ICE officials, how to handle encounters with ICE and next steps on how to become a volunteer legal observer. The session was illuminating, we very much appreciate the time and energy that the representatives from Mission Graduates & PODER put into sharing this critical information with the community.  Sarah, a W.O.M.A.N., Inc. Support Line Advocate who attended the training, said, “I learned so much! I enjoyed that it was a very practical approach on how to help and highlighted the importance of getting the word out there in terms of rights and resources.”

Some ways you can help:

  1.  If you see ICE in your community, report the activity with specifics on location of the raid & personal information of the detainee to Rapid Response Networks:
  • San Francisco – (415) 200-1548
    • The Rapid Response Network of San Francisco is made up of 21 community based organizations that provide legal and education services to the immigrant community. Our primary goal is to provide quick response in the event of any immigration enforcement activity. We have a 24 hour hotline, do raid verification, and provide legal representation to community members who are victims of these immigration enforcement acts. This service is offered in 4 languages: English, Spanish, Chinese & Arabic.
  • Alameda County – (510) 241- 4011
    • Call Alameda County Immigration Legal & Education Partnership (ACILEP) for rapid response and legal services.

2. Help Mission Graduates & PODER host more workshops like this by donating here.

Additional resources:

W.O.M.A.N., Inc. Guest Bartends at Tonic

A BIG thank you to everyone who came out to support our guest bar tending fundraiser at Tonic!

On Thursday,  March 23rd, W.O.M.A.N., Inc. board members, staff and volunteers got behind the bar to raise funds for our programs that support survivors of domestic violence. With the help of one of their bartenders, the group learned how to mix drinks and pour draft beers for the crowd. Between 6pm and 9pm, 100% of the tips collected went straight back to W.O.M.A.N. Inc. Thanks to our team & community support, we were able to draw in over 50 people and raise nearly $1,000! 

 

Much gratitude for our amazing team members who donated their time to support this successful event: 

Guest Bartenders:

Mary Kate Bacalao, WINC Board President
Christina Bulman, Support Line Volunteer
Jaymie Frazier, Outreach Boo
April Hall, Support Line Volunteer
Kathy Jeffery, WINC Board Member
Lauren McCaffrey, Support Line Volunteer
Genevieve Miranda, Support Line Volunteer
Sabrina Woon, Support Line Volunteer
Samantha Wong, Support Line Volunteer

Sign-In Volunteer: Sarah Lee, Support Line Advocate

Volunteer Photographer:  Alex Orozco

Check out photos from the event here.

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Learn more about our services & how you can get involved at our website: www.womaninc.org

Dismantling & Rebuilding: Celebrating Jill Zawisza’s 20 Years of Leadership

The W.O.M.A.N., Inc. Board of Directors warmly invites you to Dismantling & Rebuilding: An Evening for Stronger, Safer Communities. We’re celebrating our Executive Director Jill Zawisza’s 20 years of leadership in the domestic violence field and her 10th anniversary with W.O.M.A.N., Inc.galeria1

When: Friday, April 28th | 5:30pm – 8:30pm

Where: Galería de la Raza | 2857 24th Street, SF

Dismantling & Rebuilding is about anti-oppression, intersectional feminism, collaboration across difference, and holding collective power. Inspired by Audre Lorde’s observation that “the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house,” the event promotes stronger, safer communities rooted in intersectionality and inclusion.

JillAbout Jill:

Jill has worked as an advocate and leader in the domestic violence field for 20 years. She has dedicated 10 years to W.O.M.A.N., Inc., including five years as our Executive Director. Jill leads by building strong teams and putting people first. She’s created a powerful, resilient W.O.M.A.N., Inc. community that models our vision for the stronger, safer communities we strive to build for all survivors of domestic violence.

Join us for art, music, drinks, hors d’oeuvres, and a silent auction in an intimate gallery space. Meet our Board, our volunteers, and our incredible staff of seven who provide crisis line, therapeutic, and other supports to survivors of domestic violence in the Bay Area and beyond.

  • Get your tickets on Eventbrite here.
  • RSVP on Facebook & invite your friends here.
  • Can’t make it to the event, but still want to support? Donate in lieu of attending at www.womaninc.org/donate

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Donor Spotlight: Selena Standberg & Hired Team

1) What is your name & what do you do? 

Selena Strandberg

I work at Hired, an online marketplace for finding a job. I have been at the company for several years and previously managed our category expansion. On a personal note, I’m passionate about gender issues and believe ardently in gender equality.


2) How did you first learn about W.O.M.A.N., Inc.? Woman_2

My friend and coworker, Amanda Maxedon, organized a group of women at Hired to coordinate follow-up actions after the Women’s March in January. I was looking for a volunteer opportunity for this group to support on International Women’s Day and I knew that I wanted to help victims of domestic violence. After doing some research, I found W.O.M.A.N. Inc. I loved the work and the mission of the organization and knew this was a cause I wanted to support.
3) Please tell us about your fundraising efforts for W.O.M.A.N., Inc.

We had SO MUCH FUN fundraising for W.O.M.A.N. Inc.! We “guest-bartended” at Jackalope on International Women’s Day (the same day as the Women’s strike). None of us had ever hosted an event like this before (or poured cocktails behind a bar 😉 ), but we were able to pull in quite the crowd of friends and coworkers. The bar was packed all night and we were able to raise over $1300 in tips to support W.O.M.A.N. Inc.

Jackalope was a great venue for the event. The staff were awesome to work with, and might I add, very patient with us as we botched many drink orders! We had four ladies from our company volunteer to bartend, in addition to myself and Amanda: Megan Kelley, Colleen Sullivan, Jamie Gray, and Vanessa Van Schyndel.
Woman_14) What inspired you to support W.O.M.A.N., Inc’s anti-violence efforts? 

I think gender violence is one of the most under-discussed issues facing our community. We like to pretend that gender violence is an issue only under-developed nations have to contend with, when in reality, gender violence pervades all socio-economic classes in all countries, including ours.

This past summer, I was chased home by someone threatening me with a knife just four blocks from my apartment in the Lower Haight. I got very lucky and was able to hide in a convenience store, which happened to still be open. When I followed up on the crime, the police dispatcher informed me that women being chased or followed is the most commonly reported crime in San Francisco. This really struck me. My story is not unique – women constantly feel threatened in their daily lives. I’ve been looking for ways to support victims of gender violence since this moment and was really excited to find this opportunity with W.O.M.A.N. Inc.

5) What is the impact you hope for your support to have on the community?

First and foremost, I hope the money we raised can support victims. I’m a huge proponent of mental health awareness and therapy. If the money we raised will enable emotional and psychological support through therapy for even one DV victim, I will consider this event a success.

Secondly, I truly hope we were able to raise awareness for the cause. I think it’s really easy, specifically for tech workers in San Francisco, to assume women and men have reached equality (with only a few problems left to solve, like adding more female CEOs!). In reality, we are VERY far from gender equality if a large portion of the population regularly fears for their own safety. This spectrum has a wide range: from women who carry mace while running standard errands in the city, to victims of domestic abuse and rape.

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Thanks Selena & team for supporting W.O.M.A.N., Inc.! Collectively, all those donations amounted to $1,364 — enough to provide us 75 hours of crisis line counseling on our 24 hour support line and 40 hours of DV training for 3 volunteers. We appreciate you!

Couldn’t make it to this event? Or loved this event so much you want to attend another?

The folks at W.O.M.A.N., Inc. are hosting our own guest bartending event this Thursday, March 23rd. RSVP here!